Becker Institute Books - CD's and
DVD's
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Power, Control &
Trust - Spiral Bound Paperback |
This 100 page book
provides a straightforward approach to
developing a relationship of trust and
respect between teens and adults. The book
leads the reader through a series of
exercises designed to teach five skills of
effective communication, showing teens
that getting what you want is not about
controlling others, it's about controlling
yourself.
While written for teens, the book is an
excellent resource for parents or teachers who
want to encourage self-reliance and improve
communication with their children or students.
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$12.95
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Everything
Parents Need To Know About Kids' Drug Use...
But Are Afraid To Ask -
Paperback |
Our children have a
50 / 50 chance of using drugs. Some will
become addicted to drugs and some will
die. Wealth, social status, popularity,
small town living and even high
intelligence can not protect your child
from drugs.
Times have changed and so has drug usage.
You are the best defense your child has when it
comes to decreasing your child's risk of using
drugs.
Are you going to leave your child's future in
the hands of their peers and the
environment?
This book is a short, quick and
easy read. Buy it and read it!
You wish you had!
- Bill Dalton, parent of three teens
A simple, honest look at where youth are with
drug use today.
Mr. Becker is dead on.
- 18 year old student-
A must read for every parent who thinks that
drugs use will never happen to their child.
There are no easy answers just awareness, good
parenting, and professional help.
-A Parent of a child using drugs-
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Everything Parents
Need To Know About Kids' Drug Use... But Are Afraid
To Ask
Live Seminar DVD |
Filmed before a live
parent audience this 90 minute DVD gives
parents all the information they need to
know about Kid's Drug use. This DVD
focuses on a child's beginning drug use
providing information you need to know to
on how to detect early youth drug use and
steps needed to take to stop it.
The unique DVD presentation looks at youth drug
use from a parent's perspective addressing
social and family dynamics that are usually
overlooked in law enforcement or treatment
presentations.
This DVD is a must for all parents who think
their child will never use drugs and for
parents who child is experimenting or evolved
in casual drug usage.
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
Complete Series CD Set (9) |
This 9 disk complete
CD series encompasses everything a parent
needs for new insight on how ro work with
your children more effectively. Buy the
bundle and save over $30
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
10 Commandments For Parents CD Set
(2) |
If you need a quick easy to use CD to help
you to develop a self-reliant and responsible
child I encourage you to buy this CD. The ten
topics covered will give you new insight on how
to work with your children more effectively.
Each topic contains information and skills you
can use today with your children.
By
using these tools you will allow your child the
chance to develop the social and emotional
skills they need for the real world. Let's put
the joy back in parenting.
- Put Your
Relationship First And Your Child A Close
Second
- Structure,
Structure, Structure
- Set Limits
And Consequences With Your
Child
- Always
Follow Through
- Create
Opportunities for Your Child to become
self-reliant and responsible
- Stop
Rescuing Your Child
- Model,
Model, Model
- Dialogue
Often With Your Child
- Respect
Every Child
- Use Shame,
Blame and Guilt Sparing
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
Respect & Motivation |
Respect
The most common
complaint from parents is not feeling
respected in their own home. The most
common complaint of teens is not feeling
respected by their parents. If respect is
an issue in your family this CD is for
you. In this CD you will learn how to
structure your family for respect. You
will learn the three most common types of
respect and three easy ways to foster
respect in yourself and your children.
Motivation
How do you
motivate your children to live up to their
potential? Parents are seeing a growing problem
of lack of motivation in their children. It is
becoming increasing common in our schools,
home, sports, and other activities. Our
children are getting lazy, uninspired, or
burned out.
Motivation is a function of three basic
perceptions and mental process of the
non-conscious mind. In this CD we will learn
how to improve motivation by building on your
child's basic perceptions of capability,
significance and influence and recondition the
non-conscious mind.
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
Allowances & Chores |
In this CD you will
learn an easy and productive method of
structuring chores in your home to create
a sense of value, responsibility,
fairness, follow through and fewer power
struggles. Learn five easy to use methods
to make the chores run smoothly at your
house.
If you're tired of your children always asking
you for money or believe that it is time for
your child to learn money management this CD on
allowance is for you.
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
Entitlements & Privileges |
Do you spoil your
child? Do your children expect you and
others to give them things without earning
them?
We live in a culture where kids spend over 80
billion dollars a year on goods and services
using an average disposable income is $80 per
month. Advertisers, parents, peers and social
norms send message to kids that they should
have any and everything they want because they
deserve it. We have generations of unfulfilled
adults and kids who are trying to find
happiness and significance in materialism.
This CD will help you to establish the
structure for your child to earn the
privileges, develop an respectful attitude and
work ethic that result in happiness and
fulfillment.
This CD should be combined with the CD's on
Power Struggles, Structure and Chores/
Allowance.
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
Power Struggles |
Are you constantly
involved in power struggles with your
children? Do you find yourself giving in
or giving up because of the continuous
hassles? This CD will teach you how to
stay out of power struggles and have your
children doing the things you ask them to
do. You will learn how to say "no" without
arguments and how to teach your children
to make healthy choices.
Sound too good to be true? Get this CD because
this works!
This CD should be combined with the CD's on
Power Struggles, Structure and Chores/
Allowance.
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
Quiet Time For Kids & Adults Part 1 &
2 |
Have you noticed how
kids don't talk much with adults? Did you
know that the average child dialogues with
an adult less than 90 minutes a week! Most
kids don't talk with adults because they
don't know how and don't get enough
practice. Learn how to set aside the time
and conditions that allow real dialogue to
take place in your family. If you don't
create the time it will not happen.
Dialogue is one of the four crucial
components to healthy relationships. Learn
Fred's five rules for increasing dialogue
with your kids.
This step-by-step method shows you how to
create quite time in your household and how to
overcome potential roadblocks. Included is a
section for your child to listen to, allowing
them to understand why this is important to
them.
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
Structure |
The most important
thing you can do for your child is provide
healthy structure. It is the single most
important basic your child needs to feel
safe, be happy and function at a high
performance level. Most households contain
limited structure that slowly erodes as
family's become busy and the children grow
older.
Limited or over structure results in unclear
expectations, power struggles, unfulfilled
promises, and organized chaos. Learn how to set
healthy structure I your home and make the
family run smoothly and efficiently. If you are
working harder to hold your family together
only to find an increase in problems than this
CD is for you.
Without structure you have chaos……..and working
in chaos only leads to more chaos.
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Changes Through
Empowerment -
Emotions & Behavior |
Over 85% of our
actions are controlled by our emotions.
Our emotions often get us in trouble by
acting without thinking. Children being
highly emotional and impulsive
continuingly allow their feeling to
dictate most of their actions.
In this CD you will learn how emotions work and
how you and your children can develop skills to
recognize and control positive and negative
emotions. Also included are skills for
controlling your anger and helping your
children to control theirs.
What you model to your children they will model
back to you.
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